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Is there a cure for crossdreaming?

Some find their erotic cross-gender fantasies scary and threatening. There are ways of integrating them into your life, however.

Jack Molay
Jun 8, 2023
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Over at r/crossdreaming a crossdreamer posted an anxious presentation of the way erotic crossdreaming (referred to as "autogynephilia" by them) had come to dominate their life. They were clearly looking for a "cure". 

It is always hard to find a good way of answering such questions about cross-gender embodiment fantasies, given that I, at least, do not think that there is a cure for crossdreaming. It is part of our nature, with roots in biology and shaped by culture and personal experiences.

But you can read my answer here.

There is more than just one transgender narrative

"Am I trans enough?" "Am I really transgender?" "Is it only a fetish?" Even if the LGBTQA culture has become increasingly supportive of variance, both as regards sexuality and gender identity, the old "woman trapped in a man's body narrative" remains strong. 

For some that narrative makes perfect sense. For others it does not, or – at least – it feels only partly true.

Over at Crossdream Life, Lost has gathered and presented a selection of life stories that tells us that there is more than just one transgender narrative.

Selected stories from Transgender World

Study: Most trans adults say transitioning has made them more satisfied with their lives.

Transphobes have a very old-fashioned ideas about reality.

A lesbian refugee from Uganda is doing her best to assist LGBT people living in a refugee camp in Kenya. You can help her.

The majority of Americans want protection for transgender people, new poll shows

The Weimar Republic, The Far-Right, and the Return of Moral Panic

Transphobic conspiracy theorist argues that Zendaya and Tom Holland are both transgender

An amazing must see cartoon about queer and transgender animals

96% of Lesbians are Trans Allies

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health Attacks the Republican Anti-transgender Policies

The new hateful anti-transgender regulations of Missouri show us that it was never about the kids

alienby.comics have published some really great trangender comics

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